Unveiling The Truth Behind The Talking Stage — why 99.9% Fail

Do you recall that promising "talking stage" from December, poised to lead to a Valentine’s Day triumph? Odds are, it fizzled out, leaving you in disappointment. Contrary to popular belief, love doesn’t sprout from stages; instead, relationships do, and the inaugural phase, known as the talking stage, serves as the cornerstone.
It’s common knowledge that love doesn’t start in stages ; relationships do and the first stage which happens to be the fundamental part of every relationship is the talking stage.

Things you should know From this Article

What is the talking stage?

How long is too long?

Why do talking stages fail?

Know what you want!

WHAT IS THE TALKING STAGE

The talking stage is a crucial period where you get to know someone without the pressure of a formal commitment. It's a time when you might find yourself engaging with multiple people, especially if you're indecisive. This phase serves as a litmus test, helping you determine if someone is the right fit or if it's time to explore other options.

Navigating the talking stage requires finesse, as there's a thin line between success, failure, and ending up in ambiguous "situationships." Let's delve into the reasons why talking stages often fall short and how you can navigate them successfully to find lasting love.

WHY 99.9% TALKING STAGES FAIL

• "You go in not knowing what you want, which leaves you with no choice but to go with the flow. You can’t expect someone to commit to you when you don’t know if that’s what you want. It’s essential to take the time to understand your own desires and priorities before expecting commitment from others. Without clarity on your end, it’s unfair to put that expectation on someone else. Instead, take the opportunity of the talking stage to explore your feelings and intentions, allowing for open communication and mutual understanding. By doing so, you set the foundation for a healthier and more fulfilling relationship in the future.”
• "It’s been going on for too long. This brings us to ask: how long is too long? (It’s too long when you decide it is.) Don’t be that person who doesn’t say how they feel because you don’t want to ruin the vibe. Figure out if you are both on the same page; otherwise, it’s time to move on. It’s essential to recognize when a talking stage has overstayed its welcome and to have the courage to communicate your feelings openly. Avoiding difficult conversations only prolongs the inevitable and prevents both parties from finding clarity and closure. Take the initiative to assess the situation honestly and make decisions that align with your emotional well-being and long-term goals.”
• "You are giving relationship perks. You are either in a relationship or you aren’t. Failing to realize this brings you to that line called 'situationship.' Most people don’t buy what they have tried on a couple of times, received permission to take home and return at their desired time - unless they really like it. Keep them curious by maintaining an air of mystery and intrigue. Avoid giving away all the relationship perks without commitment, as it blurs the lines and can lead to confusion and disappointment. Instead, prioritize clarity and mutual respect in defining the nature of your connection, ensuring that both parties are on the same page and fully invested in the relationship’s potential.”